Happy Anniversary, Ingrid

Today is the 33rd anniversary of the day we came out to each other, Ingrid. I used to call you on this day and we'd reminisce. I wish I could call you today.

Thank you for helping to make my life and for letting me help to make yours.

The whole thing still amazes me all these years later. Two kids, such bravery, so young. Thank you, thank you.

I miss you so.

Cows Well Done

Maybe it's finally happening, that mystical place where the warm memory overwhelms the sharp pain. At least today it is, watching the Cows With Guns video. If you don't think of Ingrid then and laugh, you're probably not breathing.

I hope you heard me laughing for you, Ingrid.